Ask: "if I wanted to spend 10 minutes making this room better, what would I have to do?
The key is to start where you can start... Literally: 8_Pq4m24C. i-WCUMXXM. You have to give your mind a genuine aim by specifically asking the question. You've given your mind an instruction and it can listen and act, observe! You will notice things will start to "announce" themselves as needing to be repaired. This act can be done with something as simple as a room, or as complex as a relationship... but practice with something easy to define*.
The act of purposefully instructing your mind to genuinely pursue a goal (take aim) does a strange thing... it literally changes your perception of the world... it reconfigures itself around that aim*. Positive or negative, it follows your aim... So, z4AQ5zVfo. Consider where you are in life, problems you can observe, how much of your situation is due to the wrong aim, or the lack of an aim? Likely a decent amount if you're being honest with yourself. True, life is hard, situations outside of our control do have a dramatic influence on your direction. But it's worth considering, out of the things you can control, are you aiming at the things you genuinely want?