It's very rare to find someone in pain who would say "it wouldn't be any different if I was out of this situation"... so you care. evidence
So, if you do care about improvement in your life (removal of pain), or "getting your act together" - how do you go about doing that? conclusion
You may argue that "you don't care", but the nature of pain is that, by definition, you care about it or it wouldn't be a pain.
So, you do care, even if you don't want to admit it.
There's a desire to improve ones situation (one's self). claim