If you cling to the past and keep using it as an excuse for not moving on with your life, then yes, your future will be very similar to your past. GIVE up the past and allow yourself to be present and engage with day to day life ALONG with having a clear vision of what you want your future to look like; then the future will look nothing like your past. It's your responsibility for better or worse. You have the power to decide. keypoint routines11 p.6
You have to experience the benefits of a routine before you can convince yourself to stick with it. Catch 22 being that you can't experience the benefits without actually sticking with a routine. keypoint {good way to open a blog post}
One must understand and believe deep down in the power of "the slight edge" (daily declines, routines) in order to stick with them. keypoint
Correct the thoughts you have and the words you speak to reflect where you want to be. routines11 p.39 keypoint
Will Power is Vastly Overrated. For most people, will power ends up looking and feeling like some sort of grim self-tyranny propped up by an arbitrary, artificial reward and punishment system. There is a natural tendency to resist an applied force. Willpower will take you only so far before you feel yourself rebelling. keypoint p.63 routines9
Avoid stating that you're changing forever, ex. "From now on I'm always going to stick to my routine all the time, forever, and never mess up." That is overwhelming, especially if you're just getting started. keypoint
We are all aware of the insidious and destructive power bad habits can have in our lives, even if we're not quite as aware of our own as others are. A lot is written about the power of good and bad habits, but we tend to overlook the enormous power of positive, intentional habits. keypoint p.217 routines9
------ CHAPTER: Why it can be difficult to stick to a routine. Or why you think it's difficult. keypoint The problem is, it's just as easy NOT to stick to a routine than it is to stick to one. It's 0% harder or easier.
"The little things" that will make you successful in life, that will secure your health, happineness, fulfillment, dreams, are simple, subtle, mundane things that nobody will see, nobody will applaud, nobody will ever notice. They are those things that, at the time you do them, often feel like they make absolutely no difference. keypoint
Become an Imperfectionist // Many of us have the mindset of "either I'm going to do it perfectly or I'm going to wait until I have the time and energy and skill and everything else to do it perfectly. "If it's worth doing at all, it's worth doing poorly." - GK Chesterton quote - if we only do the things that we could do perfectly, we wouldn't do much. keypoint routines6 p.191
Example: reading 10 pages today of a good book aimed at improving your life, your life will not change. If you don't read 10 pages today of a good book today, your life will not fall apart. HOWEVER: Doing this every day, for a year, you would have read 3650 pages - equivalent of one or two dozen books of life transforming material. Would your life have changed? Absolutely, no question. keypoint p.57 routines9
Part of the resistance within us is involved in accepting our own limitations, at this particular moment, given the amount of time, energy, etc available to me, this is the best that I personally can do. keypoint
Making the choice to HAVE a choice is 99% of the battle. keypoint
We cling to the past because the past gives us a sense of identity; it makes us who we are, or at least that's what we think. keypoint We haven't yet learned how to be present and engaged in our day to day lives.
sidenote - track the simple improvements you make every day to the "systems" and "organizations" in your life. Ex. if you're improving a funnel, track the changes you create / add / modify / optimize every day; based on feedback from your own internal system. What are you doing better in that process? Track it. keypoint
keypoint "the slight edge" - routines - dailies - are boring in the short term, incredibly exciting in the long term. Making the right choices is not dramatic. If making the right choices were a dmaatic thing, you'd get immediate feedback. That doesn't happen: there is no immediate feedback. routines9 p.67
keypoint Little things like that seem insignificant in the doing, yet when compounded over tie yield very big results. "simple daily disciplines".
Most tend to see larger or different problems as negative, and it infects their lives with negativity. You can gauge the limitations of a person's life by the size of the problems that get him or her down. You can measure the impact a person's life has by the size of the problems he or she solves. routines9 p.164 keypoint keyphrase